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2 years ago

#21

FusionGrape

BoA)Whyte(... Lol. M8 1st of all you really should think that European culture is far more different than e.g Japan/Asian culture before posting so good advices. E.g. in North Europe its natural to have sex after 16y old and one night stands are normal. WHEN in Japan people still live in their homes when they are over 25y old, thats why they have these love hotels~

2nd, if you say that under 25y are all waste of time, m8 then the problem is maybe in you? Of course I doubt that if u have a crush when u r 16y old, it most likely wont be your true love for your rest of your life, but I've seen them too. But when you hit over 20, you are rather grown up and you most likely live in your own place and you make your own decisions. So I dont think that under 21-25 are waste of time..

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To OP, it depends a lot in how you met this girl (?), if u have been together for 3y or smt and then she left for another country e.g. to be an extend student for 6 months, yes it can be possible. But it will be hard. It had been counted that when a guy goes to a military (6months - 1 year) and they see each other ~ 2days/2weeks the persentage that their long relationships will end is smt like 60%..

BUT if you found a nice partner from the web what you havent seen IRL, then NO it wont work out. Its really hard to trust in your partner and it will lead to very big problems and so on.. But of course who knows.. Maybe u have a 0,001% percentage.

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2 years ago

#22

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advent

how did you even meet this girl?

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2 years ago

#23

JonhyBot

Please LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIPS NOOOOO! It may seem that it will work, and indeed it can, if you already had a serious relationship before and the split is temporary and necessary, otherwise START A RELATIONSHIP IN THE INTERNET AT LONG DISTANCE FROM EACH OTHER.....DON`T YOU DO THAT TO YOURSELF!.....only if it is an hot asian dota female player....that you should consider

SomedayNatureWillMakeYouPay

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2 years ago

#24

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oyo

epic fail from op to not give us any specific information about HIS situation.

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2 years ago

#25

JonhyBot

By the way

2010-02-08 13:44, ADV3NT. wrote:
how did you even meet this girl?

Love this question

SomedayNatureWillMakeYouPay

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2 years ago

#26

paulinepain

commitment is such a boring thing.

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2 years ago

#27

ph3nom3non

damn...my girl just leave the country too....and now i read these comment...rly depress....and SOOOOO CONFUSINGGGGGG

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2 years ago

#28

eyelike

Sooner or later she will pleasure another guy. Sorry. True story.

Trolling since 2006

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2 years ago

#29

FreeZe.

Many here clarily doesnt know what they are talking about. Long distance relationships can be a good thing, im a living example. I dont think anyone can be in a successful long distance relationship because its all about communication and trust. If you're in a long distance relationship you miss out of all the annoying little things, and when u get together everything is just great. But ofc: short distance > long distance

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2 years ago

#30

BoA)Whyte(

2010-02-08 13:32, FusionGrape wrote:
BoA)Whyte(... Lol. M8 1st of all you really should think that European culture is far more different than e.g Japan/Asian culture before posting so good advices. E.g. in North Europe its natural to have sex after 16y old and one night stands are normal. WHEN in Japan people still live in their homes when they are over 25y old, thats why they have these love hotels~

2nd, if you say that under 25y are all waste of time, m8 then the problem is maybe in you? Of course I doubt that if u have a crush when u r 16y old, it most likely wont be your true love for your rest of your life, but I've seen them too. But when you hit over 20, you are rather grown up and you most likely live in your own place and you make your own decisions. So I dont think that under 21-25 are waste of time..

what do you know about Indonesian culture ? I don't really know anything specific, and thus advice I tried to give was the most general things I had to state in that matter (taking notice to the fact that the guy who asked the question, did so in a multi-cultural forum, which I took as being above any culture or any other boundaries). However what I said was not pointed only towards him in particular, but it was my overall opinion about relationships.

furthermore I said that anything below 25 is a waste, because I really think so. I've seen hundreads if not thousands of relationships in these age ranges that did not achieve any upper level of relation besides being a plain boyfriend and a girlfriend. most of these ended with some kind of argument (adultery ftw, woohoo...). and so imo being <25 yo is just for doing crazy stuff without too much commitment (cause that is impossible to achieve before becoming truly mature) and having FUN. a biological fact - human brain ends its developement by the time you gain ... guess what ? TWENTY FIVE years of age ! hmm, is that logical explanation ? in my opinion - it is.

besides - humans are mostly just animals which can't control their instincts in certain situations. and I, as a man, have close to none trust in women faithfullness. and men too ; ).

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2 years ago

#31

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thezor

Most of the times it'll fail, honestly
But if you had some real time together before being taken apart, then it might work, eg the more time you spent with her before going away, the more time you'll have before things go apeshit.
If you never actually met, well, I hope you two really believe in it and plan to get things real soon enough, else it'll only be painful.
It can work, but you'll have to be very commited, and that's both of you.

Good luck with it man, wish you all the best ;)

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2 years ago

#32

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LML (Division Leader SC)

yea, I said no to a long distance relationship just 2weeks ago.. and it wasn't even really such a long distance, but afterall it's crappy if you are too far away from each other, imo.

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2 years ago

#33

BilGames

#2 +1

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2 years ago

#34

oyo

#27 dont let you get down by those forum losers. if you love this girl and you have a true connection, it will be just fine.

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2 years ago

#35

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synergis

I hate keeping the trend alive, but.... no. Even semi-distant (nearby city) is hard enough.

Btw. Road Trip anyone?

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2 years ago

#36

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Tgk_Phoenix

there's no such thing.
#25 you are a living example as far as you know :D

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2 years ago

#37

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setsuna

#22, 25 Um, i met her at a store. She is working beside my parents store..
Iam just scared that she will be lonely..

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2 years ago

#38

JonhyBot

She will not be lonely! She works in a store for god sake!

joking.
Well man my last analysis is that if you think its worth it...THEN GO HIT IT! DON`T BE A FKN PUSSY AFRAID OF WHAT MIGHT HAPPEN!! But be prepared for the worst also, still, even in those situations i think that you just have to profit, BE HAPPY! MAKE HER HAPPY! If it doesn´t work...well too bad, just still be friends. Np. But one thing its sure, you got to decide if you wanna take the plunge (most of the times its worth the ride if you have the right state of mind

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